As Samantha Jones from Sex and the City always says, "I've never been friends with men; women are for friendships, and men are for fucking" It's always but not always been true about all kinds of relationships and friendships with men. But unfortunately, females and males are just different; not all women should be friends with men! I cannot handle having a male friend or contact to keep, no matter the situation!
I've destroyed all my relationships with men, not just partners, but I'm talking about friends with benefits, sugar daddies, hookups and married men I've had flings with for many years! Why, you may ask? After some time with men, you can see their true colours, how they view and approach you, treat you, and fail to understand! I get bored, tired, and disappointed; overall, I feel icky!
For all the different relationships I've had with men, it's never been the best sex either! They still can't find the clit, or they end up being super vanilla that an alien from Mars could fuck me better! You take a step back and realise how much of yourself you've given away or sacrificed to sin in return for temporary pleasures.
It's true what they say: your body is a temple, and it remembers everything and every man you've had sex with! For me, that's quite traumatic in my sense! The mindset of men also separates us; men think differently yet hardly show or have any emotions either! I have never seen a man cry for me or beg for me; they act cool with leaving or becomes a horrible person when you decide they no longer have access to you! In my case, I always think of men being very tough and not caring about anything apart from sex all the time! Can you blame me for someone who's been in many horrible different relationships? The types of conversation, too, are just insane as to their actual "thoughts" during the day!
How do I cope when I have to deal with a man or even go to "communicating" with one? Please keep it simple and short, and NEVER speak to them again, primarily online with socials and any form of contact. It always starts soft, innocent and playful until you post a thirst trap for someone else or take a selfie at a movie theatre; it's never the same after that! They start reacting to it, and then BOOM. They start playfully flirting and trying to lead you on, which is not my cup of tea, if I have to be honest. I delete all my conversations with men online and change all my settings so I will not receive any messages, let alone an emoji reaction. Hard, aren't I? I also get very bored quickly of their useless compliments "You're so cute, you're so pretty, aw, look at how adorable that is," blah blah blah BULLSHIT! I'm in my mid-twenties, and you STILL think I'm just a tiny cute taida tot? You, for one, are just disgusting with thinking all small women should be labelled as "cute" and "adorable". Don't try proving your point in this matter because it's a losing battle. Again, this is why I destroy all relationships with men. They never seem to learn, understand or grasp any woman's growth unless you are a chick with big tits and look older than you appear to be. Dear men, STOP thinking all women with youthful essence are "adorable" YOU ARE BEING ANNOYING!
Race car driving, I mean seriously, that is just downright sad; you can't even save up money to buy a proper four-wheel drive or an Audi, just a shitty skyline which some of my old friends thought was worth nearly $200,000. IN YOUR DREAMS! I cannot handle or want to talk to a man who owns a drift car or is into that; please avoid me at all times. This includes fancy vehicles, too, because we know your penis isn't that amazing in the bedroom, either. Thank u, NEXT!
Small little ways during conversations or outings are another pattern I see. In tiny little ways, they try to be the"nice guy" or too vanilla so they don't come across as the bad punk or too close and talkative with getting to "know" you. Aww, you think I'm funny, mate? I don't have any sense of humour; I always tell my work colleagues that energy and vibes NEVER lie. Don't be there putting up with their soft crap; move away or go do something else because men will do anything to "get to know you" I mean your BODY! Not you as a person. Men are not for friendships, and that I stick by.
I don't see myself dating or even bothering to be with a man for the rest of my life. Once you see things, it's not like you can put them in the trash. They're there with you wherever you go and will always be there, so be careful with the type of men you decide to be "friends" with or associate with. Some women have become permanently traumatised and scared. I, too, have become scared of men.